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Hype...?
Anal sex is absolutely the thing at the moment. The taboo on this sexual variant only makes it more attractive. The popularity of pornography also can be credited with the growing interest. Anal sex can be an inexhaustible source of pleasure for both the receiving partner and the giver. Thus it is not so strange that many people enjoy and/or fantasize about this form of sex. What is striking is that especially men are interested in it. Women are generally somewhat more reserved about thing like this...
Anal sex is intimate and a bit scary. The best way, then, of experimenting with it is with a partner who you know well and trust. Together you can quietly take the time to discover each other in a new way. For instance, you could begin with a comprehensive, relaxing massage, and playfully involve the asshole in your caresses. Use enough lubricant and stimulate the secret entrance with one or more fingers, an anal dildo, a vibrator and/or other exciting sex toys. Of course, you can also lick and kiss the asshole (called rimming), with or without the use of a special dental dam. There are more than enough possibilities, thus, to fully enjoy the ‘flower bud in your backside’!

Men
For a man, participating in anal sex can be an intense and very intimate experience. As the passive recipient, he can also experience the beauty, vulnerability and surrender that is generally reserved for his partner. A further nice extra is that the prostrate gland can be stimulated in anal penetration. That can lead to spontaneous ejaculation and intense satisfaction. On the other hand, of course there are also men who fantasize about taking their partner anally. They experience the other, tighter entrance as an exciting and naughty alternative for vaginal sex. Because of the soft pressure that he must employ to get in, the penetration also feels particularly intense and deliberate.

Do’s and don’ts
The anal muscles are difficult to control. It is therefore extremely important to do everything very slowly and sensitively. Using a lubricant is essential in order to prevent pain and damage. Always be careful in penetration. Fingernails, pointed objects and sharp edges can cause serious injuries. Because the intestinal wall is very thin, it is also best not to use any objects longer than 20 cm. Further, it is also important to know that objects can literally disappear in the anus! So pay careful attention and take care that the object which you are using broadens out much wider at the base. In all cases, the use of inflexible, straight objects is not advised, because of the curved shape of the rectum.
Toys that are used anally must NOT be used in the vagina. Doing so can cause the natural environment of the vagina to get out of balance, leading to fungus infections, etc. Use condoms, or choose objects that are easy to clean!
Communication is important in all forms of anal sex. Make sure your partner knows beforehand just where your limits are. The recipient must be able to trust that the partner will move more gently or even withdraw, if the sensitivity becomes too great.