Large equipment: 1 straight back chair
Large to medium table
Play equipment: Leather wrist restraints
Rope (3 to 10 meters)
Blindfold
Nipple clamps or wash clips
Feather (things soft and tickly)
Ice or metal from the fridge (things cold and hard)
Kitchen equipment (wooden spoons, spatula, soup ladle)
Sexy underclothing (for male or female)
Dildo or vibrator
| The Scene: This is an intruder scene, the roles are played by the ‘stranger’ (this person can take on the role of a robber—extreme scene or dishwasher repairer, mail deliverer, etc.—softer scene) the other is the ‘innocent’ person at home. You can play this scene 2 ways, the intruder stays on top (remains in the dominant role) or for a fun twist, the ‘innocent’ shows they are not so innocent and takes over the role of the one on top. |
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The bottom (the person playing the innocent) is busy in the kitchen (baking, cooking, having a cup of coffee, etc.) there is a knock at the door (the intruder). As soon as the innocent opens the door the role play begins.
The intruder is forceful (from the beginning the intruder orders the innocent to do things: ‘Get me a cup of coffee” and makes comments “You’re sexy, I would like to fuck you…” etc.)
When the innocent starts to get angry the intruder gets more aggressive.
The Intruder grabs the innocents hands and puts on the wrist restraints, then forces the innocents hands behind the chair and secures them (this can be done with rope or clips). You can also loosely attach the ankles to the bottom of the chair just to insure your innocent will not run away.
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At this point both of you should be comfortable in your roles and beginning to feel the dominant/submissive relationship.
In this type of role game you can torture and tease your innocent from hard to soft play. Remember that you are ‘strangers’ and are not restricted to the same rules you normally have in your own bedroom, this means….. experiment! Suggestions to get the play going:
*The intruder tells the innocent what he/she is going to do to them (use dirty language, crude descriptions and maybe mention things that you KNOW you will not do for real but say just to scare them, such as suggest you will cut off their hair, etc.).
*Unbutton but do not fully remove the innocents clothing (people often feel more vunerable to be exposed but not naked)
*Use the feather or wooden spoon to lightly tickle or tap all over the body (not on back of neck or along the spine)
*Use the ice to stiffen the nipples, cool off the neck, arms or legs. Insert ice inside the pussy or the anus (this feels a bit shocking – the ice has a burning sensation as it melts, but don’t worry it is harmless)
*Release hands from chair but not the legs, bend innocent over table while legs are still attached to chair (this is a bit uncomfortable but effective to help innocent get into the role)
*Use spatula, wooden spoon, hand, etc. to rub and spank the bottom and back of legs (you can stimulate all areas of the legs but should be careful to avoid the back of the knees and the ankle bones)
*This position is also good for using vibrators, dildo’s, butt plugs or engage in sex (oral and/or intercourse)
Note: The best way to keep this game fun is for the innocent to continue to resist (or take over the dominant role). When the dominant/submissive roles dissolve into good, horny sex then go with it. There is nothing wrong if your first game only lasts 10 or 15 minutes, BDSM takes a lot of energy and often ‘transports’ the players to a higher spiritual plain that can be both exciting and scary. Take it slow, be patient and don’t give up on it after the first time. Like anything, good BDSM play comes from practice, time and attention.
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